人生充满了争吵,由于我们的修养不够,争吵很容易发展成冲突。如何让争吵获得有益的结果呢?今天特别为大家隆重奉献25种让世界更和谐的吵架方法。 . Z5 C7 y- T" h( A, C : O( P8 A3 Y, m7 @! O! E" o6 M/ b) p+ s( G1 V
0 W$ v/ y& y0 o" t9 w. z+ [3 p4 @Please try to understand my point of view.1 h& k6 ~% D. ?+ ~8 I# H
请理解我的观点。8 o: b2 ]9 y6 ?3 k2 x$ M2 \
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Wait, can I take that back? - i6 e: l9 f) X2 i) c等一下,我能收回我说的话吗? ) N9 I7 g2 F- k 0 x5 |: @2 ]) t" o+ V4 \ & F$ \' G. e8 j( l) O/ E ! D% l! ]5 ^; `You don’t have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you. ; m8 d- x& \9 |$ J, J7 p7 n我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。 o# @7 M% T+ R$ s+ f8 ?! h" h/ x, b4 M3 W
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This is important to me. Please listen. . P9 i1 G! e+ z4 N. H9 j0 i7 Q7 X8 }4 I这对我很重要。请仔细听。1 A' ~3 {$ y; ]: u2 D/ I
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I overreacted. $ Q( n$ U8 N2 Q- N8 U+ f3 |/ O我反应过激了。 " H+ u1 N* q3 V/ Z H & Z. W, X! T8 V, |" b3 A# Q U/ ~) K# P; R8 U( d
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I see you’re in a tough position. . M/ e0 B6 f' ^. @! q$ S我知道你的处境艰难。 8 _0 F0 `) X! L9 q1 ?1 R/ m: a# `7 _0 f* O) y
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I can see my part in this. 9 L7 W0 r4 U( d- W; i0 q1 G这个问题,我有错。 ' t% u% q/ o" b( f2 ^2 E 3 ~2 `1 g) M; O4 x2 t5 v: j! x/ M7 |5 C3 d1 r
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I hadn’t thought of it that way before.* q& |5 r. g) P
我以前没有这样想。 - N! W/ }1 I r7 u 5 F) {4 D7 b1 t# @/ g- q( U7 ^) a# ?1 }1 l" T
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I could be wrong.( y3 J, `; c6 w
我可能是错的。 ) a% a- T, I; E: B; m9 d1 n4 n" M0 F $ J2 }- h2 C2 h. Y" @2 H% P @ " J1 |& y. Z, d0 o' P% ]& R' o7 |$ @9 t8 [2 B
Let’s agree to disagree on that.: y! w5 w9 T- P/ y" R; k, Q
让我们接受我们的不同观点。& d M* t+ ~+ }3 b. J3 z
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This isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem. 4 H7 S& {% j$ e. x$ K这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。6 _4 o2 f& x3 c0 A0 x
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I’m feeling unappreciated. . \+ @$ O* c% A; k/ v我感觉没有收到重视。 8 O* D5 l6 W& M6 O# }# G + [8 G& r: z+ p+ u+ w! \8 i7 S; g: L' ^% V9 U
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We’re getting off the subject. - d5 T& v; w( M/ F5 `" q2 S2 _) n) ^6 x& Y9 i% Y5 S- ~% i" U
0 e- V- N. ~/ ]( h! o* e9 d% lI know I need to listen more.% V8 Q( O8 i, v% b
我知道,我应该多倾听。) t5 S- I/ @5 F. t" L" }4 R5 ~+ z" i9 {
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You’ve convinced me. 1 W0 Z4 j- Z0 Q- a; F" {, l2 A1 q 2 v V- F1 `8 N! l- N+ p7 ^" o8 R/ P) r
Let’s take a break for a few minutes.$ d& B" H# V( a& X# N% R( y
: `, g9 X9 q6 J3 N# g+ O! w让我们停一会。: K: _) S+ L h7 i( v
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[If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling.] 3 p+ y) R( K4 f7 q0 Y; X: W7 P, r( g4 O! F* Q& W) w* f
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Please keep talking to me. i# H( D8 _ B
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, v% `8 r( p- y b, DI realize it's not your fault.4 b$ P3 D) w/ b; F9 v- w
我意识到这不是你的错。# d/ y+ T5 O! X
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& r6 ^5 E" l( g! Z0 W4 ?That came out all wrong.. e2 ?4 ^& K6 L% \5 {2 X2 Y# v
我表达错了。, i7 u% R5 g& A* T) R& }7 P# p% z
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6 Z& `& \ q; X6 `I see how I contributed to the problem.- x6 U" y/ u" V( O' @9 d
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我明白我引起了这个问题。 - |' O2 b1 _7 Q) [. D8 B2 x8 o; H9 ^/ E2 {7 h) F
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What are we really fighting about? 3 m! Y* a& H' Y$ r) b 8 u8 w6 X3 w% @+ }, w' v0 X+ q8 g7 M8 _ S, d
How can I make things better?+ f L+ X+ }$ A' j* `$ o
我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢?6 s# r: B/ ?3 H7 @
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1 }6 g$ I- g1 `5 Y% Z , P3 k) \- L8 {We can solve this if we work together. ! s' d) _( [2 r; v如果我们携手合作,我们就可以解决这个问题。 ! H1 e0 Z- l% j- f# ?( U K0 l& T1 \+ e" P& j
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I’m sorry. 1 X% A) K: r1 i0 d& m+ @0 y* q: r- H7 ]* ~& i4 x" B
对不起。 2 i9 P( W6 t+ n- h: d- d 4 i6 j. a3 g7 e" W. ~7 Q% _ 7 Y9 R$ \1 T! Q* P( Z( W6 xI love you. . y+ u7 W3 _( H/ d我爱你。 / T4 Q5 H. V2 n2 J- u/ Q4 u9 t' b1 }' X( b$ `
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