% P& a$ E6 d: g4 n9 l+ QPlease try to understand my point of view. 0 `' g5 g$ }: \! o d( _! l4 r请理解我的观点。 0 l: S' Z" \/ p) ]* \* e6 W! V7 [8 _% L6 h& k4 K" B
* Z' W, Q0 U# t % @! V9 P+ L! A3 gWait, can I take that back?) U* v \. |3 w
等一下，我能收回我说的话吗？ ; d; U8 |5 s! W8 {/ `: ? D# o# s, G$ t
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3 P5 v; B7 d- lYou don’t have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.' Z% P& A* ~: c" j
我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。: r: J, t R6 e1 W
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This is important to me. Please listen. " T0 {, |- k% U+ l& G) z& q6 r这对我很重要。请仔细听。 ) e2 N% }' f" V: W3 `1 D + f; M6 O U e1 Y2 \# v) x1 d/ f7 {6 h& D' k2 K$ d+ s
' G' @: U }9 iI overreacted.! D: {0 h# H% a' O1 m
我反应过激了。9 b, e* e) T, v" E
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I see you’re in a tough position.# h u4 F! e. J" s3 ~7 j. A
我知道你的处境艰难。( I2 w3 ?, @$ [! E8 e' p3 ?
1 T* T7 A' \; q2 j! T' H$ v) YI can see my part in this. + e* J5 \2 i; n! w* \; ` A: ^这个问题，我有错。 , `$ d6 g2 d2 _$ p0 J# P; [( \7 r# e s. T( d6 m4 E- r7 e
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I hadn’t thought of it that way before. # n R" y* L9 c- U Q0 p& E9 I我以前没有这样想。! E9 T" ?2 t$ V6 I u" h% w# D* q$ `/ b
$ m3 a/ `9 D9 a0 f8 R+ c9 m 8 X( A. v" Y9 y0 X2 ~' b/ n . D6 \! Z6 s u3 _6 N! ~I could be wrong. 0 J& v1 O7 T' F( g: ~( f我可能是错的。6 m0 w( Y1 {; @2 B
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' c, r. |3 |9 e$ Q. kLet’s agree to disagree on that. # w4 k! K* a- n/ E; W" J X4 k让我们接受我们的不同观点。! J7 d% G7 u+ B3 k/ C' ?
# |& }( Y. `. u ) y5 C% Z& i; S) o% ^: f, c - s8 N; M, H! J8 pThis isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem. 3 ^% t ]7 u# E( O) N1 _这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。/ u+ b; |# c0 R/ R
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I’m feeling unappreciated.9 z* \" ?0 U% U+ T! d
我感觉没有收到重视。 ; @/ w/ j8 Y$ W , q8 @4 G) ~9 O) ~8 {: u ! o( w! v; N. ]0 ~$ t7 s8 {# O 4 j, q- L A; a$ V, g- |9 bWe’re getting off the subject.5 t, e: h; w3 g- l
# o: `0 @/ q# \' e e; | % y7 l0 u7 p7 ]. z0 c) x/ wI know I need to listen more.6 x. s) }4 p' e0 W; Z+ |
我知道，我应该多倾听。 4 C, k8 B }8 N( V6 _6 b7 J9 l# v* H# R' D; t( }' V7 Y
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3 O+ {2 E" w- h" hYou’ve convinced me. $ k2 X1 f. s& B# p0 [ $ l. i+ N0 s' H8 A' w/ O% |9 n! V8 k4 x6 z$ O( g' N; G
Let’s take a break for a few minutes.9 S( U; h: U5 T; k* Q A7 _9 u
' K$ U. o, F- L; `/ n! g' F0 m: H: B让我们停一会。0 O* [6 C8 h- ~5 g0 e
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[If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling.]: }) O# h" T5 W: U, v% ]
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4 w" C. V5 @7 ^( z/ G; |Please keep talking to me.% ~9 ]; s8 J) y3 p2 v9 B
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I realize it's not your fault. 2 T3 d; W, b2 j% A" [. T2 ^' B我意识到这不是你的错。; \& p7 }# u" x7 A5 J. E
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; }" [ K% \+ x( s2 C 6 r8 H, d }3 c+ cThat came out all wrong." U* H4 s! Y. t& v' b" h- T# U
我表达错了。) g! a4 O* r! V+ o
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I see how I contributed to the problem.0 s, Z0 p+ m z
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我明白我引起了这个问题。 : r& ?: X% V9 H ( J d$ Z' p$ k8 O. r1 V- @% A D2 F# m( ?& ]0 k" q) h4 ?- s
What are we really fighting about? 7 j/ M) _' R7 b8 `5 R# }. |/ V9 } e8 j( h- F" D4 L3 O: E
4 d% m1 X7 F1 [7 ?How can I make things better?+ l' ?# C, k3 F, ]
我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢？/ z+ G- J" Q. y( X2 T2 q% z) S8 [8 h8 B
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% m4 l9 P$ Q: m* _& ]We can solve this if we work together. & n+ P2 @. u# ~# i6 [如果我们携手合作，我们就可以解决这个问题。# B i7 z- ]; f+ Y+ S
) j7 A& p) O% U ( g' Q& l: B4 t + l' |0 k; t( m- m& p. dI’m sorry. @5 I7 {' z! `3 |* v 1 [. l2 p. E' }% Q& K' ~对不起。 : Q- }5 E: P7 M) a% m4 G 5 u. s, P# b6 l3 y ] ]1 j+ U& C6 MI love you. - T K+ T; }( x3 N. f5 x我爱你。) J+ n$ u) p& @4 _1 a {
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