人生充满了争吵,由于我们的修养不够,争吵很容易发展成冲突。如何让争吵获得有益的结果呢?今天特别为大家隆重奉献25种让世界更和谐的吵架方法。& c, b5 l2 V5 R0 u% x/ b
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' @2 G) g) v. N! [0 z 7 w4 a7 X/ w# Q" APlease try to understand my point of view. 5 p0 O" Q P( B% u请理解我的观点。 6 `# ~% H8 X8 Y6 U1 o! J7 O* m8 q- e i1 c- l) V
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8 I, v. u' ?% e8 uWait, can I take that back?" ]5 ?( e- b- g" J2 h. Q& }
等一下,我能收回我说的话吗? . }: w( k6 i0 y _1 h6 ^$ G7 p0 O# i Z1 Z H" m
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You don’t have to solve this — it helps me just to talk to you.6 Q5 p% n4 r( d4 }' y7 @6 N1 I0 F
我不用帮我解决这个问题。和你聊一下就对我有帮助。/ G0 H# M3 F* o( p1 ^+ d) l! A
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" ~2 `. d7 p, h1 x6 wThis is important to me. Please listen. 1 v0 J- G% K7 ]这对我很重要。请仔细听。 ( y% s! @- I' S$ i0 x' ?, M 1 z3 _" Q, f T& t* _4 r5 C Q+ o5 D, T7 m, w4 C. S' ]2 Y
' a2 A! v. w) j, F$ M: zI see you’re in a tough position. % p( ~0 O, c6 x( t) I我知道你的处境艰难。$ |4 ]1 ^ p7 i7 Z6 Y
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+ d( X' t& J' RI can see my part in this. 9 g# \0 @) f5 l. k这个问题,我有错。 3 M/ t( D4 [8 _5 `& W5 F7 K5 n0 f- h) I0 J4 e" V6 l2 b
& N9 ^& G8 M. p6 P 8 _' x6 z3 v+ C$ GI hadn’t thought of it that way before. e; l! H: G0 `5 [% ^我以前没有这样想。. |5 P/ p+ O! I- v1 V* `
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I could be wrong. 6 U! [6 F2 T6 {1 d) Y" j我可能是错的。 : g& l$ d, S' l7 ] t# h" x5 S6 _/ t3 q( n' G( r4 z
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Let’s agree to disagree on that. 8 X, \0 v% d: z4 ^+ A5 e' g让我们接受我们的不同观点。 " E$ V( c! a0 Y& i. ^. C ! ?/ \7 |" Z; Q/ ^9 |, [$ I; N1 B 9 a; Y8 Z. I, }6 H: |) _* d % I( x+ x' u$ [: z/ e) xThis isn’t just your problem; it’s our problem. + i! i- ]4 o; c' S# R% Y这不只是你的问题。这是我们的问题。 " T9 K$ A! j, g( ^/ l 3 _6 Y$ D1 A1 L1 ^ o- m, Y! S! R! F" ^* Y) h- g2 u3 {+ _/ R& H7 n2 K0 h
I’m feeling unappreciated.3 ]6 A2 I+ ^& h1 U* q6 }7 I
我感觉没有收到重视。 y* s: k) W: o# _
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We’re getting off the subject.) M5 d4 s3 ~- n
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& t) l: t9 E4 h- J- X" `, VI know I need to listen more.& S1 n( G3 ^6 h
我知道,我应该多倾听。* P5 _$ w2 y5 }% I( F1 o
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Let’s take a break for a few minutes. ' Q- F9 Z# z$ F7 a+ O: D2 c+ e2 X7 q6 }+ P$ T
让我们停一会。 1 F2 Y5 Y% O0 G; K* O ! W( F( y1 z! f[If you can remember to do this, it’s extremely effective—especially if you’re having a big fight. After a break, it’s almost impossible to go back to yelling.] 9 X' j+ J" A+ F% ]* a* e( j* ] ; W8 n& U3 l6 g( r' \5 z: d4 _. y! M
Please keep talking to me. ) _- l' F/ D8 S I( l; M0 h( K/ x
0 n' z, \8 U4 jI realize it's not your fault.7 Q0 b! D+ n- E% Z: B7 v
我意识到这不是你的错。8 Y' E8 o, K8 `& f1 g9 Y0 \
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+ F/ B) m. V4 X. w2 pThat came out all wrong., c* T8 `9 P" R( j$ v
我表达错了。, T( E' R6 D, ~0 p! e
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I see how I contributed to the problem. 9 j# O0 g* L! H' L- r2 z 7 g: y. O2 J7 E! ~& P T; X- ? T* h: N我明白我引起了这个问题。 / T7 O5 z! P! g* ] $ M& _) q. Y1 e* E3 [/ y3 j 9 e! }# \4 ~7 c6 ?# T0 VWhat are we really fighting about? " Z# Q! H a/ r- R7 C % J. b$ w3 A' T t) V7 a. s& T% l+ j. }; f* p. `
How can I make things better? " v. Z4 x6 a$ `7 N我怎样才能把事情变得更好呢?- N' y' j. p+ l& e7 @
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7 j1 H, P% V* iWe can solve this if we work together. $ B* b, G# K4 S4 l8 Q/ W如果我们携手合作,我们就可以解决这个问题。 2 H* Y8 C% Y6 F6 o 1 M8 T4 R. j. g! T3 s8 n. [! P - f0 G v- d, [0 i 2 }8 R' l2 B; R0 i( l1 u3 BI’m sorry.. b! T9 c3 A3 M U% @: l0 U+ L
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对不起。 + {5 V0 Y# o$ X- l, {- b( M( n1 z# F, i9 C1 g& j
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I love you. 3 A0 C+ N0 @$ W# s- o我爱你。0 u; L5 f! @4 \: Q2 [# v